so far, he is 39 (will NOT be 40 in a month or ever, thank you very much) and a veterinarian. he is miserably married, always riddled with catholic guilt, irish, and generally a quiet guy. however, when he does choose to speak up, it's often sarcasm or humor. ben is a terrible communicator, likes animals more than people, but has a soft spot for his family. he moved to la in 2005 to follow his kid sister while she chased her dreams and then he followed suit to chase his own with opening a vet clinic. what's she like?