overall aj has a bad habit of falling in love too fast, being almost uncomfortably intense, and not really handling things well when the relationship ends. that being said, at least one of his exes would have managed to remain close friends with him because their split was more about a lack of sexual compatibility. either they just weren't quite what one another wanted or needed or it's a bigger thing where one or both of them having certain fetishes that the other couldn't get on board with. lots of potential silliness, really. but the other two are still very intense and aj keeps going back to them, breaking things off, writing songs about it (he has years & years credits) or talking about it in interviews. ideally i would love xavier dolan and/or joe lycett credits for any of these exes, but it's not mandatory and i can help with other credit ideas as well!