I'm shit with faces but I could try to help. She'd be 42 or thereabouts. Their daughter was born when Sam was 18/19. He'd signed up for the army and left for basic training before the girl he'd been seeing even realized she was pregnant. After the baby was born, he wanted her to come be with him but he was getting deployed and she didn't want to be stuck on some army base with a bunch of strangers while she tried to take care of a baby at such a young age. She wanted to stay in California with her family and he understood that. He was in the army for 7 years and didn't get to see either of them too much but he kept in touch with her through letters, etc. Then when he was discharged, he got into MMA. It was his kind of therapy. It helped him get through the transition. He was good enough to get sponsored and started competing in UFC and did quite a bit of traveling until he quit competing. So, suffice it to say, he hasn't been around all that much for his oldest daughter. He is married now and has a 15 year old daughter as well. But the mother of his first child is basically his best friend. She doesn't harbor any resentment towards him since she chose not to join him while he was in the army. Their daughter has had some resentment over the years but they have a decent relationship now.