ben also needs some guy friends in his life. he...is probably still levels below bastian's athleticism, but i can picture him taking a swing at golf (🥁) and just enjoying how terrible he is at it. he also doesn't mind karaoke, pretending he knows how to play poker, light camping, masking his vulnerabilities with sarcasm and self-deprecating jokes. he will judge that odd egg salad sandwich though because how little does he love himself?