She's so on board with all of that - early bed times, awful jokes, being super enthusiastic about interests (and most things, tbh). She's got some family closet skeletons but has 4 brothers and a few nieces and nephews, so she'd relate on that level. We can always say they were friends growing up? Maybe he was the best friend of one of her brothers? We could even give them some romantic history and say they dated briefly in high school if you're up for it.