that sounds perfect. her family is really christian as well (her mom has a portrait of jesus in their house and it's the first thing you can see when you walk in and lily makes a lot of unsavory jokes about it) and try to be traditional but often clash with their more western children. she and her dad have a very complicated relationship; they were extremely close when she was a kid but when she got pregnant in college (and did not marry the guy/refused to give the baby up for adoption) it started bad blood between them. he kicked her out of the house and said that she would only be allowed back if she gave the baby up. that's how she wound up in san francisco to live with her aunt. she loves her dad and he loves her kids but there's still a lot of hurt and pain. she feels like she let him down and that he is ashamed of her and i think as the years have gone by he regrets what he did as well.