YES i was hoping you'd agree. nashville was grown when his mother died, but his brother (cleveland, because his mother named them after the cities they were conceived in and never kept their father's in the picture) was a teenager. so the aunt mostly just felt a grevious loss after her sister and she wanted to keep her boys close but nashville was more like, "i'm taking my brother and working on getting our lives" and doesn't particularly like that she gives him so much advice. BUT i can see her being religious and having children, etc. does any of this work for you