welllllll, i was skulking around and see that he is the son of ~earthenends, yes? while we have yet to hammer out the details, i believe she might be an age old lover of aidan’s that once cut out his tongue (though i believe that would have been long before john’s birth) so i’d love to say they’re casual troublemaking friends and have them both be oblivious to who exactly the other is because tbqh your guy sounds right up aidan’s alley in terms of friends, they’d just be constantly fueling each other’s bad decisions like what’s the worst that can happen? worst thing is definitely mom finding out~