i adore them honestly, esp because lily is just the best. that works for me! he's a huge grouch and i feel like she's not so she could maybe be one of the few who actually makes him smile/he has some kind of obvious affection for? WHICH IS BIG FOR HIM. he's cranky all the time because he's an empath and absorbs everyone's emotions - and working in health means a lot of the time it's depressed/angry/hurt etc, so her being space hippie positive thinking would probably help him lmao