they had a pretty toxic on/off relationship for about four years that ended for good in august or september when he found out he had a daughter. they were the sort that when their relationship was really good, it was amazing and when things were bad, it was terrible. raf is a fighter but he would never hit her or anything, but there was definitely some volatile fights with cursing, name calling, etc. and i'm sure at some point he would have even thrown things or even punched a hole in the wall or something. where they are now is up in the air but i kind of imagined things were similar with them bickering a lot minus the romantic aspect.