if you need any help with all of that, let me know! i've been navigating it with this one for a little over a year now (and with two different cvs over the course of that time). it definitely does take some time to get comfortable with it, but it's definitely fun to play around with. if you don't have anything locked down for family, i can offer this one up. she's got an aunt somewhere out there in the world, so we can maybe hash out some details there. what age range were you looking at for her?