because i'm sure she would have done her own research into it before she just went in and accepted an offer (that was probably WAYYYY too good to be true), so she probably would have gone to him looking for that reason to turn it down or accept it and, if he pushed for her to accept it, she would have realized he had a reason and been like alright let's do this. i'm thinking she was sort of forced into "retirement" within the last two years from service, so she's been bouncing off the walls crazy and picks up gigs and then gets bored and sits there and bitches at the bar with him because she was escorting some ship and dear lord god why are transports so boring.