i love her. he's a bit of a pain in the ass with anger issues (i finally did his bio yay, but has no job because i can't place him just yet) anyway, he's 28ish i might change it, but so far that's where he felt. he was born in brooklyn, raised on the upper east side. dad was 'slumming' it with his mom who was 18 when she had him, and by the time he was seven dad had married and they couldn't have kids so he fought poor mom for sole custody of the kid, which ended up with her getting a nice payout to walk away and jay being raised by nannies. by junior high he was angry and bitter, by high school he was suspended and nearly expelled but daddy was rich and paid to keep him in private schools. he begged to go to college anywhere but in ny, but dad is a control freak and said no. so he went to nyu. i have no idea what he majored in, step-mommy talked dad into allowing him to pick whatever he wanted. now he only deals with his parents on major holidays, like christmas. and that's more out of obligation that want. he's not the friendliest human on the planet, but once he warms up and decides he likes you, you're his for life and he'll go to hell and back for you. is any of this helpful?