i hadn't hammered out exact times just to keep things open, but she's been in st. louis for the past 6 years and i'd say married sometime within the first 18-24 months. i'd say the marriage lasted at least 2-5 years. basically something was going on that caused them enough troubles to sit down and basically say "look, i love you, but if we stay on this road right now... we will never come out of this in ANY way together." so they divorced and are still ridiculously close. and probably still sleep together. she owns and runs a chocolate shop/wine bar/coffee bar in town, used to be a stripper (who still does every now and then for fun), and is the president's niece/goddaughter.
as for the cousin, i'm sure he probably could be the same!