that would be great! for the ex it would've been after he and his wife separated so he would've been kind of a distant dickhed, really, since he wasn't ready for a relationship at the time and we can figure out specifics but i thought it could be fun to have some tension there because he also was not the best at explaining that so she would've kind of been left in the dark as to why he was doing the things he was doing. for the fling something that was pretty lax or carefree or even something weird and awkward we can figure out!