well, all of this sounds perfect? this one is an heir to a fortune but does interiors and flips houses for a "living" he doesn't exactly need to make. his partner died about a year ago and he's been coping with that by throwing himself into projects, which does include overextending himself for the people he cares about so he doesn't have to focus on his own feelings, and everything you mentioned is exactly what he's into. he's definitely a patron of the arts (along with the rest of his family 🤑) and them striking up a friendship wouldn't require that much of a stretch of the imagination.