this guy's a semi-snotty artist who once played in a punk band and likes to skateboard late at night with his pals, but probably also just wants to sit around with his best pal and drink wine and talk about troubles and netflix shows. shopping excursions, DIY projects, a two-man community garden plot together? someone who can yell "YOU'RE BEING AN ASSHOLE" at him when he's being an asshole and bring him back to earth. someone he can stick by and be loyal to in return.