if you don't mind an age difference, i think we can make it work. he was born in montreal, but moved to san francisco when he was about 7. it took him some time to adjust to the new setting, but he's been here ever since. he's a smart kid, but easily distracted, and so he's taken a bit of a professional slacker route to life. currently he works as a receptionist at a vet clinic while he kind of bounces around in life and figures out what he wants to do. he's never been really great at commitment. whether that's because of his deep-seeded abandonment issues, or his feelings for ~sbv that he doesn't even realize/is in denial that he has, he does tend to self-sabotage a lot.