well, cate's like absolutely no stranger to that sort of thing. her relationship with her exhusband was pretty fucking wild and they went from being married to being divorced, to cheating on their partners with one another and getting back together, having a child, breaking it off completely etc. for me it really depends on how long they have been divorced actually. because for cate there's been a lot of determining factors in her relationship with her ex, and like getting her mind clear from that whole charade. basically it's like if to her it feels toxic she would have a problem, but if to her it doesn't feel toxic she would have zero judgment because she's been down that road - only her ride down that road was under different circumstances