she's got her life together in the sense that she's always known what she wanted and never backed down from going for it! but oh oh oh! yes, i would love for them to have known each other when she was young and sick. if he needs a roommate, this one would be game too. they could have reconnected in the midst of his angsty teen phase and she could just be the pillar that helps hold him together (and encourages him to have a good time)