i'm open to ironing out specifics, but basically it would have been someone he met while he was living in LA - a situation where it started out as just two people having intense physical chemistry, and that progressed really quickly. they moved way too fast and before they knew it things were fairly serious. whether that means they were engaged or just emotionally invested, i'm not picky! but it would have been during a time in his life where things were changing really rapidly & he was slightly terrified/immature and probably not in his best place for that kind of relationship - and now for whatever reason they're both in san diego and we could figure out what kind of terms they're on/etc. i'm rambling but that's the gist!