that is rough. i need to discuss the timeline with my slp but rueban is returning home after being in vegas for the last four years. he was there for a change of scenery, school, and somehow landed himself a husband. 2012 was when the proverbial shit hit the fan for him, so he would have definitely been partying a lot and flirted with anyone that would give him a second glance, but was generally noncommittal when the other party was legitimately interested. he would have left sf in 2014 but i'd like to think they would have stayed in touch. and maybe they even touched base when she was in vegas to get hitched!