cool, that makes sense! i'm going to say he attended some school in sf from age 18-19 but then took off to go to tisch and finally got back late last year. they could've started dating when he was 17 (i assume she's going to be 24 as well?) and then lasted about 6 months after his ny move (so they would've dated like...2 and a half to three years?). i think he might have "almost" crossed some lines during his time away but her confession via drunk phone call was a huuuuge smack in the face. he would've been pretty crushed and probably just hung up... ghosting from there because confrontation is not his strong suit.