counties A man who was my girl's high school best friend's brother, who had zero idea my girl had a crush on him, whom she'll proceed to pursue, if not just to fulfill a fantasy. A fling or two she ducked out of/ghosted on because they were just after her divorce and she thought they might be catching feelings. Other exes with awkward/bad endings for some drama. The ex-best friend who cheated with my girl's husband 4 years ago. Older men, because she prefers them. Other people who love to write scenes and men of color in general. Zac Efron, Idris Elba, Morris Chestnut, Damon Wayans, Jr., Ryan Reynolds, Ryan Gosling, Michael Fassbender, Michael B. Jordan.