that's totally understandable. i'm trying to sort out exactly what his relationship history might look like and i'm thinking he's never really had anything super long term before. he was probably in a few relationships that were more serious on the gal's end than his. it makes sense then as to why he wouldn't have many qualms about mucking her's up. he probably felt bad when it was all said and done, but he might've been aware that the guy wasn't exactly a dream guy either so he didn't completely beat himself up.
anyway, that's great! i'm slowly picking at him. hoping to get him ready and applied by some point tomorrow.