i do love the idea of him working at that kind of bar, though! she grew up in so cal until she was 10, then she and her mom moved to oakland to live with her grandma. my girl's husband cheated on her when she was 25 (3 years ago), and she's had nothing but flings since. she's a child psychologist and bartends at night to try to save money. she's not easily impressed or shocked, but she loves ashton like a little brother, so she'd probably roll her eyes at the thought of the two of their spoiled asses hanging together, lol.