all of this totally works on kitsey's end! she really does mean well, but she's also... you know, not the wisest person, so of course she'd fall into a terrible affair with her best friend's husband. she'd feel absolutely awful about it now (not in the least because obviously she's not even with him anymore), and she'd have begged and pleaded with jasmine directly afterwards for forgiveness. maybe she kind of stopped bombarding her with attempts to talk for a couple years, so now it's been a while since they've had any contact?