i'm so excited! so, i was thinking they met in college or maybe even in high school, were joined at the hip, etc. jasmine met her husband freshman year and they got married one year into grad school. a few years later (2014), jasmine catches her husband with your lady in the act. i haven't really hammered out details for when she found out, as far as a screaming match or her just leaving, but she would have cut your lady off completely, or at least as much as she'd try to without being stopped.