so he's got money to blow and is already well aware that people use him for that and he mostly doesn't care since he's in the school of thought that really it's a mutually beneficial relationship, so maybe we can tie something fun in there? he has a lot of parties at his nice big house, they could've met at one of those or she could've found her way in some event she was at and maybe she tried to work someone else and he saw or she tried something here or for a change of pace he tried something on her first so she was like oh this poor sweet idiot i'm going to grab some resources out of him AND WE CAN FIGURE IT OUT FROM THERE?