that's perfect, actually. perhaps we'll use the time line of the civil wars to judge the ups and downs of their relationship? we can say our two met in the festival circuit sometime in 2011 and began an affair. her husband got suspicious in 2012, which prompted the hiatus of the civil wars/that little rough patch in 2013. maybe it was a bit of a rough patch between our two as well because i don't imagine she's one to give up on a marriage so easily so they could've been on/off during that time period? then finally, in 2014, when the civil wars broke up for good, that was when she and drew really fell into their honeymoon phase because no obstacles, everything is easy, da da da. fast forward a year later, maybe shortly after her divorce went through, and our two got engaged (2015), then married later that year? between how quickly that marriage happened after her divorce, how their relationship started, and their own individual music careers, i can see how the issues were well hidden up until recently.