he's dropped people without a second thought for even implying he needs to shift focus in a relationship, they knew who he was and how he operates before getting involved, he's not changing for anyone. has his own baggage, too, but he doesn't discuss any of it with anyone outside of a very small, very tight circle. a natural extrovert and it makes it very easy to hide behind a false front, no use for anyone who doesn't respect his boundaries, etc. pick a number, any number, and we can roll with it.