OH OF COURSE somehow the age gap went entirely over my head! yeah, for him i see him being very fascinated and enamored with her as a concept but he didn't have the proper courses of action to make the relationship functional... his fixation made the whole thing last sooo long although it shouldn't have. i'm thinking there was potentially another fairly serious relationship with him sometime after their breakup where he was a little more functional? it might have yielded a child that he's currently estranged from but i can't decide if i wanna do that drama or not!! for them this means he tends to move on fast because it's hard for him to give closure to his feelings? it's pretty obvious that they weren't that great together and maybe he's ok with that, but i can see him feeling insecure about how seemingly positive and productive her life is because he's in the midst of a crisis. ummmm it's been a while... things are probably on decent terms, but maybe a little stiff? orrrrrrrrrrrrr he holds her in a positive light, i don't know if you'd like her to feel differently and that's cool too