he's essentially revolving his life around his grandmother right now. he's her caretaker and he's made it a point to keep her one of his top priorities. he has time to live freely but he sometimes has a hard time letting go enough. when he does though, all bets are off and he's out there getting crazy sort of like how he used to in high school, but way more responsible as an adult. how are you with a neighbor type? maybe one night he was out on his porch/patio and he was having a bit of trouble while trying to figure some things out in his head. he's smoking, rambling quietly in the dead of night, groaning out of frustration, and she overhears and he's like i don't know you but come get some of this if you're into it, and they make a habit of it a few times a week?