where this is clearly the best time of the night to post this but i'm going to try bringing her in. i'm thinking she either works at or co-owns some kind of new age store and she also runs some kind of self defense class for women one or two days a week somewhere like a gym or something, perhaps? i'd love anything but specifically another person to co-own the store or the owner of the store she can work at if there already is one, family, a roommate or two or three if you want to do a big house situation. i'm down for anything at all!