So This is Vanessa Jackson. She's 31 and has a 4 year old son. (Feb 2). Being the middle child, she's kind of a hot mess of a woman. Aside from their dad being MIA, she had an ex that cheated on her, and another that was abusive. (not physically, but more emotional and mental.) So she has a hard time trusting the opposite sex. She's kind of settled since becoming a mom though. She never went to college, but attended bartending school, then became a hairstylist knowing she couldn't bartend and be a single mom.