we are both useless. GO US! honestly either one. her mom married her dad at like 19/20 and had her around 23. constant travel, etc. so a friend or family member would be something her mom kept close to have a tie to home. she's been in boston...probably 8ish years. i think she moved after college to get out of new york. which is perfect, if he came in 10 years ago, it would have given her a reason for moving to boston after college. she'd have had family there