i feel you on this. i'm hoping to have her totally together by sunday's adds even if i'm working on it little by little. she grew up raised by a couple of artsy guys who don't really believe in filters and her mother has tried to instill a few with little success. she's not one of those 'i tell the truth' blunt assholes or anything, but she rarely sees the point in not saying what she's thinking even if she's nice enough to soften her words where necessary.