they'll get along really well, i can tell. he is 35 and native (if you want to maybe go a cousin route, i think we can work that out, but i'm open!). he's a mess of a person in a lot of ways but he's good hearted and cares a lot about the people in his life. he used to work at a winery, so she could certainly have capitalized on his connections here. he's a firefighter.