they really are it took be forever to choose mine! well so far i have that he's just recently graduated from columbia with a degree in something, currently working a couple of jobs (at a comic book store and being a server at some restaurants) while he's trying to "find himself" and figure out what he wants to do for the rest of his life. i like to think that he's always kind of felt like something was off in his life and that he was always reaching for something just out of reach, has never been able to settle into anything. he's adopted, has no clue who his biological family is, has no idea he's got a twin brother!