they are very different in the aspect of expectations. robert always knew that a place in the government and business was expected of him. he had a mixed bag of traditional and modern upbringing because he went to local primary school which is rare but eventually went to eton, where all the posh noble kids go. his life was kept very private by massive work from his parents and their staff, but he isn't the perfect noble. he has been known to be a bit troublesome. especially of late.
would you favor a pre-established relationship or something more organic?