that makes sense! she doesn't even really think about the affects it'll have on the folks who need help (read: do first, think later) so if and when it comes out, the repurcussions will hit her hard. for now, maybe we can say that she volunteered at the hospitality house he was working in a few times as a face to represent the family, so they know each other that way? they could even bond over the blog and what's been coming out. maybe he's even part of the reason why it hits her when it does - he could shed light on the negative impacts so eventually, she takes a step back in a sense of what in the world have i done?