i realize divorces take a while, so as long as they started that process of being we're done in 2015, i can work with this. that way he wasn't out to cheat on her because i don't think that would have been where his head was. he always wants to go back to boxing but got out of it over getting older and medical trouble over it. too many knocks to the head. i could see him getting mad at the resentment trying to say he was doing all these things for her and sometimes seeing it all as her trying to take him away from his own dreams at the same time.