they are so wonderful. i'm flexible on a lot for this, but it would've happened about a year ago. his marriage was full of distrust and jealousy and this guy could've been someone he had history with or just someone new to his life - either from work or the gym or someplace else. there wouldn't have been any physical cheating on cale's end, but a close connection that toed the line on what's appropriate, a little flirting and a what if that wasn't explored that made his marriage all the more rockier.