okay that actually works out because i have her as a couture designer, which i decided on before realizing that wouldn't make much sense in a random FL town. BUT maybe sof was living in ny and moved to SA when mena got pregnant, to help her out and what not, then stayed to help her through her divorce (since she went through her own) and sort of just never left? she still travels to NY often for work. woo. i will hit them up for sure. what kind of relationship does she have with her ex?