where more guys from the past couple years she's been super into but then sabotaged their actual date because of her crippling self-esteem issues post-divorce and still probably has feelings for she'll never try to act on again, maybe another of her ex-husband's ex-wives from the basketball teams' worth of them he's amassed, people she may have known from tampa, people she dives with, lines with any of you new people, more coffee.