oh awesome! mila wouldn't've been at home starting about 9 years ago when she was married off, and she returned around the time evelynn would've left for another family, but perhaps she was her lady in waiting for a short time shortly before mila's marriage? i'm sure mila would've been a little anxious at the time about learning to manage her own house, etc. and would've been a bit weird about having a proper lady in waiting, especially a friend of her brother's, but at the same time they could've sort of had training wheels on together for that sort of relationship? sort of practicing both sides of that sort of relationship with each other. mila would've been glad to have someone helping her who wasn't a stranger and to whom she could be more friendly than bossy!