that's perfect! it fits in line with what i had in mind -- her father was the runaway brother full of wanderlust, and a desire to live his own life free of noble trappings. his relationship with her mother would never be viewed as legitimate, but he recognized her as an heir and she was raised under their roof after his sudden, tragic death. maybe in a tournament, or an unresolved murder when she was a child. she'd be like a little sister (she'd be late 20s or 30, depending on who i pick!), only knowing that she'll always be "lesser" than her cousins. she has a fondness for smithing weapons and armor, which might be a little more allowable for a bastard kid who's supposed to stay out of the way than a true lady. though maybe his mother's still trying to shape her into one now?