you have basically described his perfect kingdom, yes. feelings are for inside, when they interact with oxygen they get super confusing and scary and they don't make any sense. can you pass a law that no one is allowed to cry in front of you? ... except in cases of defrocking, which will obviously involve copious and shameless tears.
no. neither of them are at all physically appealing. that's just the objective truth. the objective truth that he repeats to himself, a lot.