well! if you want to say it was a past tinder conversation, we can say that it fizzled out because he's the worst and hates when his mother does this. if you want to say it's current, we could always say that his mother just "passed off" her information to him and we could always make a custom out of it? and his mother would probably say wild stuff that she knows women want to hear but aren't necessarily true about him (like how he spends his sundays cooking his mom dinner, that he walks old ladies across the street, etc)