once ij notifs stop being such a goof, i'll get something a bit more set in stone for her and penny but from what i know right now, she's going to be friends with penny through her brother, sean. i'm hoping that she'll be close enough with her that she could know gray through visits with penny but just in case that ends up not being the case, we could say gray is her kid's dentist? and then if they know each other through penny, that could be another point of connection for them?